Para entender e aceitar

Veja a postagem anterior. Se você respondeu sim:

·         à primeira pergunta, significa que você tem consciência que seu filho foi um presente valioso. Veja que você e eu podíamos nunca ter tida a graça e a alegria de sermos mães!

·         à segunda pergunta, significa que por mais impossível que pareça ser, é possível continuar vivo e ter momentos alegres sem a presença física dele(a);

·         à terceira pergunta, significa que você jamais deve ter qualquer sentimento de culpa, embora todas as mães achem que sempre são culpadas de tudo o que acontece, inclusive eu. Tudo que você fez desde que ele(a) nasceu foi sempre pensando que seria o melhor para ele(a);

·         à quarta pergunta significa que você está em paz e conseguindo seguir em frente. Certamente seu filho(a) não aprovaria vê-la chorando e se lamentando todo dia o dia todo!

·         à quinta pergunta, significa que você está conseguindo converter em algo de bom toda as angústia e tristeza e desse modo contribuindo para um mundo melhor. Isso é trunfar!

·         à sexta pergunta, significa que você aceitou, entregando seu filho a quem o emprestou para você cuidar e amar durante essa nossa breve e limita existência. É o melhor que podemos fazer para conquistar a paz;

·         à sétima pergunta, significa que você sabe que seu filho está feliz ao lado do Pai e que um dia vamos nos reencontrar. Não existe maior

consolo e esperança do que essa promessa de Jesus Cristo!

·         À oitava pergunta, significa que você sabe que o amor continua em você e com você cada vez mais forte e jamais vai acabar!

Leitura da Bíblia

“Assim diz Javé: escutei a sua oração e vi as suas lágrimas” Reis 20:5-6

To understand and accept

See the previous post . If you answered yes :

• to the first question, it means you are aware that your child has a valuable gift . Look that  you and I could never have taken the grace and joy of being mothers !
• to the second question, it means that however impossible it may seem, it is possible to stay alive and have joyous moments without his(her) physical presence;
• to the third question, it means you should never have any feeling of guilt, although all mothers feel that they are always blamed for everything that happens, including me! Everything you did since he(she) was born was always thinking that would be the best for him  (her) ;
• to the fourth question, it means that you are at peace and getting forward. Surely your child  does not approve seeing you crying and whining all day every day !
• to the fifth question, it means you are converting into something good all the anguish and sorrow and thereby contributing to a better world . This is victory!
• to the sixth question, it means that you accept, handing to Whom gave you the gift of your son (daughter) for you to love and care during our brief and limited existence. It's the best we can do to achieve peace ;
• to the seventh question, it means you know your child is happy with his Father and that one day we will meet again. There is no greater  solace and hope than to believe on Jesus Christ  promises!
• to the eighth question , it means you know that love remains with you and in you becoming  and will never end!


Reading from the Bible

" Thus says the LORD : I heard your prayer and had seen your tears " Kings 20:5-6

Meu anjo: Questões que pais órfãos de filhos devem responder...

Meu anjo: Questões que pais órfãos de filhos devem responder...: 1.       Se antes do seu filho(a) nascer um anjo dissesse que você teria um(a) filho(a) lindo(a) mas que a vida dele(a) seria breve e ...

Questões que pais órfãos de filhos devem responder para seguir em frente com serenidade:

1.      Se antes do seu filho(a) nascer um anjo dissesse que você teria um(a) filho(a) lindo(a) mas que a vida dele(a) seria breve e que você poderia escolher entre tê-lo(a) ou não. Você preferia tê-lo(a) mesmo assim?

2.      Você era alegre antes dele(a) nascer?

3.      Você sempre procurou fazer o que achava ser o melhor para o seu filho(a)?

4.      Seu (sua) filho(a) aprovaria seu comportamento atual?

5.      As suas atitudes ajudam a mudar algo ou alguém para melhor?

6.      Você já entregou seu(sua) filho(a) a Deus?

7.      Você acredita nas promessas de nosso Senhor Jesus Cristo?

8.      Você concorda que o seu amor por seu filho(a) é eterno (porque é para sempre) e infinito(porque não tem medida) ?

Se você respondeu sim a todas essas perguntas você está encontrando  a fortaleza! Certamente Deus preparou outros caminhos que nós devemos trilhar e seguir confiantes e em paz.

Leitura da Biblía: “Javé é a minha rocha e minha fortaleza, o meu libertador. Ele é meu Deus. Nele, meu rochedo, eu me abrigo, meu escudo e minha força salvadora, minha torre forte, meu refúgio...”Samuel 22: 1-3.

Issues that parents orphan of children must meet to move forward with serenity :

1. Suppose that before your child was born an angel told you that you would have a gorgeous child  but that his(her) life would be short. If  you could choose to have your child or not you rather have him(her) anyway?
2 . You were happy before he(she) was born?
3 . Have you always tried to do what you thought was best for your child?
4 . He(she) would approve your current behavior?
5 . Your attitudes help to change something or someone for better?
6 . I already gave my son (daughter) to God ?
7 . Do you believe in the promises of our Lord Jesus Christ ?
8 . Do you agree that the love you have for your son(daughter)  is eternal (because it is forever ) and infinity (because it has no measure) ?


If you answered yes to all these questions you are finding the fortress ! Surely God has prepared other ways that we should walk and follow confident and at peace .

Reading the Bible : "The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer . He is my God . In him , my rock , I shelter, my shield and my saving strength, my strong tower , my refuge ... " Samuel 22 : 1-3 .

I was sure...

I was sure that God would have mercy on me . It was the day of mercy ... The disappointment and rebellion were huge !

Samuel , chapter 12 : 15-23 says, " ... and the boy became seriously ill . David besought the Lord for the boy , fasted , stood next to him and began to lay all night on the ground . The elders of his house tried to lift him , but he refused and would not eat anything with them . Seven days later the boy died ... David saw that his servants were whispering among themselves and he realized that the boy had died . Then he said : The boy died? They said : He is dead. Then David arose from the ground , washed and perfumed and changed . After entered the sanctuary of the Lord and fell . Then came home , ordered to serve the meal and ate . The servants asked ... David said : While the child was alive, I fasted and wept , thinking maybe the Lord had mercy on me and the boy stayed cured . But now he is dead. Why should I fast? Will it do it again ? I do I get to where he is, but he shall not return to me. "

I had the feeling of David , that everything was worthless as for nothing he would come back again. But he keeps coming back in my mind and how I want to go where he  I should follow God and cultivate faith . Faith nurtures healing and gives hope !

Because as the famous Brazilian Father Reginaldo Manzzoti says, " the righteousness of God is manifested in the resurrection. Death is not the end point . "

But crying and whining is not the solution. Weu need to react, to live again, following with faith!