Resignation with Resilience

Resignation means to settle peacefully the new reality. It is a fact that conform to situations is not a typical attitude of one who has always struggled: at work, in the studies illness or for any other  situation.But given what we now have, the more rational is the resignation that, as a wise friend told me, is much deeper than acceptance. But not just resignation. Is Resignation with resiliency.Resignation refers to a situation of bowing before a fact that damage us internally. We need to go beyond that to achieve reaction. We need resilience. Like a high jump pole we bowed down until our limit and we can not break to be able to return to our original shape, dissipating the stored energy that allows the release.The resignation has in it a sort of accommodation which is important given that what occurred is unchangeable. But it is also essential that the resilience leads to a reaction. In fact, if all the forces of nature competed and God, that can everything, permitted that our beloved departed before us, resignation with resiliency is the strategy to be followed to find a new path so that we can live in peace and go on the walk.If there is a purpose for everything it is useless to revolt, anger, bitterness or resentment that sometimes appear coated in a layer of nostalgia. Longing must be something good and not bad. Nobody has missed stub, or a tummy ache. We miss an exciting trip or a pleasant reunion with loved ones.Faced with something so devastating like what happened to us, it is essential to cultivate faith in God mainly because faith helps get the resignation with resiliency and gives hope of a reunion in the near future with our beloved ones.Our children are well next to the Fortified Tower:  "The Lord's name is a Fortified Tower to which the fair are welcome and are safe" Proverbs 18:10.We are the ones who need to be strong.